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Twisted times

Posted by Ramya Shankar on Monday, December 18, 2006
Warning : This post is filled with pessimism and negative emotions. The reason is for me to vent it and for you not to take it personally ! Amen ! Now read it fellow banshees ! :D

What happens when you create an impression on people ? You are expected to live upto it everytime and if you happen to degrade, your life is made miserable and worth perishing. So does that mean one has to underplay everytime. Life can't be put on stealth settings. We are always expected to do things and expectations lead to disappointments most of the times.
I've mentioned a lot about hope during the course of my posts and as I write and experience more, I realize that hope is a misnomer. Everyone in this world is a selfish soul. They want only things done for themselves. They would contact you only with a reason. All I ask is, what is wrong in keeping in touch? Lack of time? Absolute crap. How long does it take to drop in a "how are u?" Obviously I wouldn't flourish you with a long screed like reply for that! Selfish and reckless souls.
And why, most of them won't even comment on such posts. Guilt strikes I suppose? They'd have 14327 reasons ready at hand to attack you with, before you could ask why! And they'd even call you jobless to keep in touch. Well, if I have to pretend to be "busy" or appear aloof, I'd rather not get in touch with anyone.
This haughty attitude of people pisses me off so much.
Go party people ! The whining is done. The heart remains cleansed and pure as ever!

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20 Comments

Anonymous says:

Honestly ramya, the warning is not needed at all. I accept and have experienced a lot of these things myself ! Selfish indeed ! Barf !


Me too used to get angry when fren don't keep in touch after college days! but now got used to it....
thats life, righto!


Rumz.. i dont know if u really mean what i have seen in this post :)

I think this post is like the same situation looked in different angles by two ppl A and B a.l.a Virumaandi and Ayitha Ezhuthu style

B is pissed off by A's attitude, B says : Everyone in this world is a selfish soul. They want only things done for themselves. They would contact you only with a reason. All I ask is, what is wrong in keeping in touch? Lack of time? Absolute crap. How long does it take to drop in a "how are u?" Obviously I wouldn't flourish you with a long screed like reply for that! Selfish and reckless souls. And why, most of them won't even comment on such posts. Guilt strikes I suppose? They'd have 14327 reasons ready at hand to attack you with, before you could ask why! And they'd even call you jobless to keep in touch. Well, if I have to pretend to be "busy" or appear aloof, I'd rather not get in touch with anyone.

A is aware B is pissed off, A feels : What happens when you create an impression on people ? You are expected to live upto it everytime and if you happen to degrade, your life is made miserable and worth perishing. So does that mean one has to underplay everytime. Life can't be put on stealth settings. We are always expected to do things and expectations lead to disappointments most of the times.

when i read enakku appadi thonuchu..if it is not like that... all i cud say is chillll..chill...... this too shall pass........ Coooooooooooool it :)


Leechers are always there...


Everybody have different reasons and commitments...so we cant expect that..


hi, how are u? :D


Humanity is a pain to think about.Did you know that there is actually a sociological theory that declares man to be selfish?every action he performs is for a selfish reason!I live by that theory!


:( polambaradhu en area. its mine n my own right. don snatch it away :((
:D

Anonymous says:

Oh yes, all the ones who haven't commented are guilty or are going to have those 14327 excuses ready with them!


Ashes,
I know I can count on u ! :)

Nirek,
That's after college days! How about ones who see you everyday, yet do that? Why should I make the first move?

RS,
That was my post in the comment box ! :D Anyways I explained the reason! :)

Thenraj,
Right accepted, but when you are in the guilty zone ? What happens then ? Why should we take all the blame everytime?


is this post exclusively for me? Neram paathu nethi adis ah di?

Honestly, will try to catch up wid u soon di!


Harish,
Hence declared Not Guilty! :D :D

Juggernought,
I will! :D

Neha,
Nee varshathuku oru post poatta epdi ? The title came to me ages back! Be enlightened! :D

Sriram,
Also declared no guilty! :D
Anyone who comments after this are going to have an excuse!


Preee,
Hehe, declared not guilty too! Nee ellam not keeping in touch nu solla mudiyadhu di loosu.


adha konjam dejent ah sollirkalaam.. fuflik ah loosu nu sollitayeeeeeeeee!!! image the total damage!


Its again the problem with expectation... since you expect people to keep in touch you get dejected when they dont... So its the fault of expectation and not you or others :)
Does this reason fall under your 14327 reasons???


-/Ramya,
That means you are worried for the others comments..if it is good u will accept it with a smile..if not u are getting worried..


Some Cat fight is happening in this post btwn two people.. ;-))


Prithz,
Aama, periya image ! Thu!

KK,
Infact, the first reason would be misinterpreting the post to find a loophole ! The actual reason is ppl expect me to keep in touch while they don't! I wont expect, nor will I keep in touch. Its as simple as that !


Thenraj,
U think I blog for the comments?? Do read the disclaimer again!


Ramya,
here "Comments" i meant in real life..not the post comments :-((


Thenraj,
See, u haven't got the essence of the post at all. Its just supposed to be out of my mind ! It defi wouldn't make any sense to a person who doesn't KNOW me !


Hi Ramya...

I really understand your frustration... belive me I've been there... and also I have been the one who did not keep in touch...
now I know the both sides of it...
seems like.. I'm enlightened... whoa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anyways... when the friend you expect from does not keep in touch... send them lovely thoughts and hugs... no more what crap you have about them in your mind... tell them all about your whinnings in front the mirror...
youknow what it truely reaches them...
and if you are on the other side... well.. I have a solution for that too...
First and foremost... do not feel guilty about it... just feel nice about... wow!!! you are 'BUSY' too... anyway... that is not what i meant by feeling nice...what I meant is...just send lovely thoughts and wishes for your friends whom you are not able to talk to or mail to...belive me they will recieve your thoughts.. and the next time you call them up or email them... you don't have write blah blahs of whyyou missed their b'day...
all you'll do is just pick up the line as if it was yesterday u met them..
it is natural...
have a love filled day ( i mean joy!!!... these days love ku meaning marthitanga paa... so skeptical people have become about the usage of words.. WHAT SAY???!!!)

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